My oh my what a week it has been and it's only Wednesday!
((How cute is this picture?? He was sooo happy and sitting up on his own!))
On Sunday, Cameron turned 4 months old. This meant lots of changes in our household. One being that Cam would go from our bed to his crib in his room. I was always one of those people that said, "I will never let my child sleep in the same bed as me." Partly because I am a wild sleeper, but also because I thought it was somewhat weird. You may also see me as a hippie who breastfeeds and co-sleeps, but to each his own, or her own :) In my opinion, every baby is different and you do what your baby needs. My baby needs a LOT of attention. He doesn't necessarily want to be held, he just likes it if you're talking, playing, or even simply looking at him.
When we came home from the hospital, the first night, Cameron cried the whole night. We thought he was gassy because his belly was making all kinds of weird noises. We put him in his bassinet, but he just cried more. Because I was so sore and desperately needed sleep, we let him stay in our bed. This quickly became a habit, and Cameron and I relied upon each other for comfort.
I decided that four months in our bed was long enough. I wouldn't trade the time we spent together for anything but he was just getting too big. We only have a full size bed, and let's just say that two adults and a growing baby is quite the tight squeeze!
Now, back to Sunday night. Cameron cried for nearly twenty minutes (ten of which included my tears) and Jimmy went and got him. It was sweet now that I think back about it. He brought him in with a big smile on Jimmy's face because he thought he was doing something sweet for me because I was lying on the bed in tears. I wasn't happy at the time though because it meant we would have to go through all the tears again. :( So I caved and he slept with us again. He woke up the next morning to eat, like he normally does, and he usually goes back to sleep. I decided to put him in his own bed in the morning, and he cried for 55 MINUTES! It was painful. However, he ended with a cute little sigh and went to sleep. He slept til about 10 in there, so not too shabby.
Monday night I decided to have a different approach. I rocked him to sleep. Let's just say there were no tears that night, and he slept in his crib the whole night. He woke up twice to eat though, which is more than usual. He took two naps in his crib that day. One for 30 minutes and one for 1 hour and 45 minutes! (Getting closer!)
Tuesday was his four month Dr appointment. This appointment included shots :( and lots and lots of questions by me! I asked her about transitioning him to his crib and she told me that if I rock him to sleep he will never learn to put himself to sleep :( So that means, I can't rock him til he falls to sleep, but I do rock him and sing our usual songs and say our prayers :)
((Waiting on the Dr.))
Tuesday night, He ate at 9 p.m., we played for a little bit, sang our songs, said our prayers, and I put him in his bed at 10:25. HE CRIED UNTIL 11:30! This is so hard for a Momma to hear her baby crying and not go get him :( However, when he finally did fall asleep at 11:30, he slept until 7:15 a.m. with NO feedings at night! WOW! This is not common at all! I woke up at 5:30 because my breasts were hurting because he wasn't eating and I was freaking out! I ran to his room to check on him and there he was, fast asleep. :) He had his little feet propped up on the side of the crib like he was so relaxed. I had to pump some milk in order to fall back asleep because I was in so much pain! He woke up at 7:15 ready to eat, and I brought him to our bed because Daddy was going to work. I love Mommy and baby time together :) He ate and fell back asleep until 10 :)
Needless to say, it has been quite a week! Not to mention that Jimmy and I both had to finish an independent study by Tuesday, so our days consisted of lots of papers! I am happy to see that Cam is sleeping through the night, but we will take this one day at a time.
P.S. Cameron gets to start baby cereal now! :) I will definitely post pics of that :)
Tip of the Day: When transitioning your baby to his or her crib, DON'T GIVE UP! When you hear them cry, try not to give in because then they will think that you will come whenever they cry. This is actually advice that my sister gave me because it was SO hard for me! Just like she did, I cried along with him! It will be hard, but it will be worth it when he grows up and can sleep in his own bed :)